What is autism?
Autism is a neurodevelopmental condition — a different way of experiencing and interacting with the world. Autistic people may have differences in how they communicate, how they experience social situations, how they process sensory information, and how they engage with their interests and routines. Autism is not a disease. It is not caused by parenting. It is a different way of being — and understanding it is the first step to supporting your child effectively.
Signs of autism in younger children (under 5)
In very young children, early signs might include: limited or no pointing to share interest; limited eye contact or gaze following; delayed speech or language development; repeating words or phrases; seeming to be ‘in their own world’; strong reactions to sensory experiences; distress at changes in routine; repetitive movements (flapping, rocking, spinning); and intense interest in specific objects or topics.
Signs of autism in older children (5–12)
In school-age children, autism might show up as: difficulty making or keeping friends; taking things very literally; difficulty with unwritten rules of social interaction; intense, focused interests; strong preference for routines and difficulty with transitions; sensory sensitivities; meltdowns or shutdowns when overwhelmed; appearing fine at school but very dysregulated at home; and difficulty understanding others’ feelings.
What should I do if I’m concerned?
Start by speaking to your child’s school. Teachers and SENCos often notice things that are harder to see from home. Then speak to your GP about a referral — but be prepared for a long wait. NHS waiting lists in Northumberland currently run to 18–24 months.
A private autism assessment can provide answers much sooner. At Speech Stuff, we offer private assessments for children aged 5 and above. If you’re uncertain, book a free call and tell us what you’re noticing. We’ll help you decide the right next step.